Homeward Bound

Discharge on Thanksgiving Day seems appropriate. I have so much for which to grateful.

In January through March, I was totally disabled on my left side, couldn’t speak, had limited right arm mobility, weak right leg mobility, and for a good chunk of that time kept having strokes and we didn’t know why. To be honest, I spent most of that time alternating between fear that I wouldn’t live to my next birthday and fear that I would. I was never depressed or suicidal, but sometimes I questioned the worth of surviving.

March through May got better. I started rehab and made progress. All my therapists were excited for me. I started remembering what was happening to me. I saw family and friends.

June through Thanksgiving was huge. I made wonderful progress in therapy of all kinds. My attitude was on target. I had some beautiful visits with family and friends. I had phone calls, texts, emails, and letters. I appreciate you all and apologize for my frequent silence. Writing has been a lot of work; more on that in my next post. My friend Dave has started calling me when he walks his dogs and we just talk about life (and more recently Buddhism). I don’t mind talking about my strokes and rehab, but it’s really nice to just talk about how well the dogs are fetching today.

At long last, I have returned home. Didn’t want to leak it before we knew dates and settled on yesterday faster than I could write a blog post. Being home is so amazing! It’s like I am a real boy suddenly. Normal life is so amazingly normal; it’s invigorating.

Had thanksgiving dinner at home. I spared the family from hearing my whole list. I am thankful for so much.

If you want to come visit drop me a note here, call, or email. I’d love to see you.

4 comments

  1. You were part of my thanks at Thanksgiving dinner here in Chicago, and I am so glad you get to be in your own home and your own bed. And I know you’ll keep rocking the physical therapy!

  2. Thank you, Rob, for giving everything your all and coming back at life with so much gratitude. Your vibrant spirit means so much to everyone who cares about you, and who looks to you as a role model (like me!). Much love and many hugs to you and Rachel and the boys.

  3. Hi Rob, Allright this is the BEST news I have received all year!! I just thought to myself let me check Rob’s website and see how things are going with him and then — “boom goes the dynamite” and you are back at home. 🙂 So glad you are back at your spot with the fam. As Joko Beck writes “. . . . Each Moment Life as it is the Only Teacher, Being Just this moment Compassion’s Way.” Thanks for sharing your journey the ups and the downs it is a true gift. Best, Karl

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